Jay & His Wife Radhi ON: The BIGGEST LIE About Love & 3 Things To Look For In A Partner
Jay and his wife discuss the importance of self-healing in relationships and the challenges they face, emphasizing authenticity and deep connections.
00:00:00 Jay and his wife discuss the importance of self-healing in relationships and how it has strengthened their bond over the years.
💑 Loving someone means making them fall more in love with themselves, not just with you.
👥 The guest on the podcast is Jay Shetty's wife, Radhi Devluk, who hasn't been on the show for two years.
🎙️ Jay and Radhi answer questions and discuss their relationship, highlighting their honesty, integrity, and growth.
00:09:42 In a relationship, it is important to have consistent support from your partner. Embracing change can lead to freedom and living in the flow of life. Roles in a relationship include parent, child, and partner.
🔑 A supportive partner who consistently stands by your side is invaluable.
🌊 Embracing change and living in the present moment can lead to a greater sense of freedom.
👨👧👦👫 In a relationship, partners can take on different roles, such as parent, child, or partner, in various areas of life.
❤️ Being a guiding partner, rather than fixing or controlling, can help the other person grow and become more independent.
💡 Helping someone become more self-reliant and empowering them to navigate their own life is a more fulfilling and loving approach.
😒 Even in a loving relationship, partners can sometimes find each other annoying or frustrating.
00:19:26 Jay & His Wife Radhi discuss the challenges they face in their relationship, including annoyance and arguments. They emphasize the importance of recognizing that no partnership is perfect.
The video discusses dealing with annoyances in a relationship and the importance of communication.
The couple talks about the need for fights in a relationship and how they have different ways of processing arguments.
They also emphasize the importance of sharing the ups and downs of their relationship to show that no partnership is perfect.
00:29:09 The video discusses the pressure of perfection and the importance of being authentic in relationships. It emphasizes the need to invest time and energy in building deep connections and finding purpose in partnerships.
📚 The video discusses the misconception of perfection and its relationship to happiness.
💑 The importance of building deep and authentic relationships is emphasized.
🌱 The concept of viewing your partner as a teacher and embracing growth in a relationship is explored.
00:38:54 The video explores the concept of viewing your partner as a guru who believes in your potential and helps you grow. It emphasizes the importance of valuing quality time over quantity in relationships.
💑 Your partner should believe in you and see your potential for growth and value in the relationship.
😕 It's common to be critical of your partner, but it's important to see their potential rather than focusing on their flaws.
🙏 Being present and valuing quality time over quantity of time is crucial in a relationship.
00:48:39 The video discusses the misconceptions about romance and the importance of engaging in new experiences and activities to build a deeper connection in a relationship.
Romance is not just about traditional date activities, but about engaging in unique experiences that foster chemistry and connection.
Building a strong relationship involves finding common interests and engaging in activities that allow for laughter, learning, and deeper connection.
Creating a list of criteria for a partner may limit opportunities for genuine connection, and it's more important to be curious and open to discovering who a person truly is.
Navigating a busy life with a partner requires actively showing up for each other and making time to connect, even amidst other priorities and commitments.
00:58:21 Learned the importance of daily check-ins and quality time after spending months apart. Recommends monthly and annual check-ins to rebuild and reflect on the relationship.
⭐ Spending time apart and then together during the pandemic taught the speaker the importance of checking in daily and having quality time together.
📓 Having a monthly check-in and answering important questions about goals and support can strengthen a relationship.
🏆 The speaker and their partner plan to travel together, schedule quality time, and support each other's exciting projects in the journey of life.
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